Tuesday, May 8, 2012

30 Big Ones!!!!!


Our littlest fairy princess has made it from 28lbs. to 30 lbs!! She also 
has grown 2 1/2 inches. So the weight she gained isn't really very 
noticeable. She is still tiny for a little girl who will be 6 yrs. in
less then 2 months. Our doctor didn't believe she just turned 5
 (June 17th 3 wks. after coming home) She ordered up a bone
scan that was done in July and it showed her age to be
2 1/2 yrs. old. At the time we were told it wasn't necessarily her
true age. It could be from malnutrition. 

So at our last visit with our pediatrician I shared how she is doing 
better with her small motor skills and she is starting to trace dotted 
lines for some of her letters and shapes. Loves to color her bible verse
picture and any of the papers her sisters color for school. (she was
very weak at first and it was very obvious she never used crayons or
pencils) She still isn't the greatest with scissors. We have been
working on ways to help strengthen her small and large motor skills.
The doctor's comment was "Why would they (the orphanage) teach
a 2 1/2 yr. old to write, color and use scissors?" 
She then said, "For being 3 yrs. old now that wasn't bad." What!?! 
I know our littlest princess was malnourished, it was clearly stated 
in her paperwork. She was also very anemic which is common for
children who have suffered from malnutrition. Our first dentist
visit was before we saw our pediatrician and he showed me x-rays
of her teeth and informed me she wouldn't be loosing any for at least
3 yrs. Hmmmm...... (trying to wrap my mind around all this
for awhile now)
We have a copy of her finding ad with her picture and the 
date of the newspaper is the year of 2006. (gift from the orphanage)
I noticed the last number for her finding date has a 6 written over it.
I had Brian Stuy send us another copy and the year is 2005. 
That would make her even older. (sigh)
Physically she seems more like a 3 yr. old. I know from adopting 
our other daughters they can be behind for a while.
She still wears pull ups at night and has accidents every once 
in awhile during the day. Yet in so many ways intellectually she 
seems so much older than 3. I slowed down with home schooling 
and decided to just let her go with what ever she wanted to do
because she didn't seem to retain much. Yet she was learning 
English very well for someone who could barely hear us. When she 
had the tubes put in her ears we were amazed at how she just 
started repeating everything and enjoying music. We were told her 
ears were plugged so bad that everything she was hearing was very 
muffled. She was struggling to hear and even so she was learning a 
new language and trying to understand us. It absolutely amazes us 
how well she was learning and understanding English! We were told
she had just started talking a month before we adopted her. I 
thought it was because of her c/p.  Hmmm........ could it possibly be 
from her ears being plugged up so badly. Know she is always helping 
me give her sisters their spelling test. I love hearing her repeat all 
the words! Also she will have me look up the scriptures in her bible 
we are going to read. Then she will take her turn and pretend she 
is reading her bible to us. We have recently started working on  
saying her ABC's and counting again and we will see if she starts to
remember them. I am so blessed to be able to homeschool her.  
 Her speech therapist is very surprised at how much and how well she 
talks. Yes, we have another little talker on our hands. Her sissy Jaden 
rarely stops talking even while she is asleep! 
This summer the doctor will do another bone scan to try and 
determine her age. We will just continue the way we have been
just going with what works best for her as she grows and learns.
We are so blessed God has given us the gift of our precious daughter 
Chloe Joy and she is an absolute JOY!!!  
  

4 comments:

  1. What beautiful girl! I am sure she will continue to blossom and grow with such attentive and loving parents! I love watching your family grow!

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  2. She is truly blossoming and I love her smiles! Age is a question, isn't it? We also have questioned Haleigh's age due to the delays and small size and they did a bone scan as well; they said it looked like it was on target and correct. So many factors and questions - too few answers!

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  3. I am so amazed, fascinated, interested. God knows!! I love seeing how all your dear girls are growing.

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  4. ohhh this is so hard! And even harder when medical or any other professionals don't understand! Sounds like y'all are parenting her just perfect and letting her learn and grow at her own speed. And just so you know - our Jailyn - home for 5.5 yrs is 6.5 yrs old and only weighs 30 lbs. and Jorja - home 3.5 yrs is 8 yrs old and weighs 35lbs. Two peanuts!

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